Can I be real with you for a second?
For years, I spent hours and hours before school started piecing together my first week. I had tabs open everywhere. A community builder from one blog, a getting-to-know-you activity from another, a slideshow I downloaded but wasn’t sure how to use, forms I made from scratch at 11pm the night before school started.
It was exhausting. And the worst part? I was so tired by the time the first day actually came that I couldn’t be fully present for my students.
Here’s what I figured out after a lot of trial and error: the first week of school doesn’t have to be Pinterest-perfect to be successful. It doesn’t need to be packed with activities or color-coded or aesthetically pleasing. It needs to be purposeful.
Here are the five things I stopped worrying about, and first-week-of-school priorities I focused on instead.

Priority #1: Stop Trying to Learn Every Student’s Favorite Ice Cream. Help Students Feel Like They Belong.
Before any student will take a risk in your classroom (raise their hand, share an answer, try something hard) they need to feel safe. And that safety comes from relationships.
Community building isn’t a luxury you squeeze in if there’s time. It’s one of the main first-week-of-school priorities that everything else sits on. If I could go back to my first year of teaching, I would spend less time decorating bulletin boards and more time helping students feel comfortable enough to participate.
When students feel like they belong in your classroom, they show up differently. They’re more willing to try, more willing to ask for help, and more willing to stick with something when it gets hard.
The activities don’t have to be elaborate. Some of the most meaningful community builders I’ve used are simple. A class question of the day. A partner interview. A “get to know you” activity where students share something most people don’t know about them.
What matters isn’t the activity. It’s the message behind it: I see you. You matter here. We’re a team.
Priority #2: Stop Rushing Into Curriculum. Teach Routines First.
I know it feels like you need to start the curriculum on day one. You probably have pacing guides and standards and a long year ahead of you. But here’s what I learned the hard way: if you skip teaching routines to jump into content, you’ll spend the rest of the year managing your classroom instead of teaching it.
Every single procedure needs to be modeled.
- How to enter the classroom in the morning.
- What to do during independent work time.
- How to use the classroom library.
- Where to turn in assignments.
- What to do when you’re done early.
Don’t assume students know any of it. Even if they had a great teacher last year, your classroom has its own rules and rhythms, and they need to learn yours.
Teach the routine. Practice it. Do it again. Then do it one more time. The repetition feels slow in week one, but it saves you so much time for the rest of the year.
Priority #3: Stop Collecting Paperwork Just to File It Away. Gather Information You’ll Actually Use.
The first week is also the best time to collect information about your students and their families before the busyness of the school year kicks in.
This includes things like:
- Student interest surveys so you can connect with kids on a personal level and tie their interests into instruction later in the year
- Learning preference questions that help you understand how each student learns best
- Family communication forms with contact information, preferred communication methods, and anything parents want you to know about their child right from the start
- Back-to-school forms that your school requires, done and filed before week two
Getting this information early means you’re not chasing it down in October. And the more you know about your students from day one, the faster you can build the kind of relationships that make a real difference.
Priority #4: Stop Trying to Impress Your Students. Help Them Feel Successful.
First week of school energy is real. You want everything to go well. You want students to think you’re the coolest teacher they’ve ever had. And so you plan big, ambitious things that sound amazing in your head but leave half the class confused or overwhelmed by Wednesday.
Here’s the thing. Students don’t need to be impressed during the first week. They need to feel like they can do what you’re asking them to do.
Students are already overwhelmed during the first week. New classroom, new teacher, new routines, new everything. Piling on complex activities or jumping into heavy content adds to that overwhelm instead of reducing it. That’s why this first-week-of-school priority is so important.
Simple and engaging beats ambitious and chaotic every single time. Choose activities that have a clear purpose, don’t require a lot of prep, and help students feel comfortable in your classroom. Think books on the tables for students to browse as they arrive, simple back-to-school printables, or independent get-to-know-you activities that let you learn about your students while they settle in. These kinds of activities keep students engaged without adding unnecessary stress to an already overwhelming week.
This is also not the week to try something totally new that you’re not sure about. Stick with what works. Keep it calm. Give students time to settle in and feel comfortable.

Priority #5: Stop Planning for Friday. Plan for October.
This is the mindset shift that changed everything for me.
It’s easy to get so focused on surviving the first week that you don’t think about what you’re actually setting up for the rest of the year. But the systems and expectations you put in place right now will either pay you back or cost you every single week after this.
Ask yourself: what do I need students to know, do, and understand independently by the time October hits? Then work backwards from there.
What organizational systems need to be in place for student work, materials, and communication? What expectations haven’t been addressed yet? What does a good morning routine look like? What happens when a student needs help? What’s the plan when someone finishes early?
Answer these questions in week one, and you’ll feel the payoff all year long. Skip them, and you’ll be scrambling to answer them in the middle of your busiest season.
Why This Approach Saves Time All Year
I know it can feel like spending time on community and routines during the first week is taking away from real teaching. But here’s what I’ve seen happen when teachers invest in those first few weeks the right way:
Focusing on these priorities during the first week of school allows students to become independent more quickly. Classroom management gets easier. Transitions are smoother. Small group time is more productive because students know what to do when you’re not with them.
The first week sets the tone for everything that follows. When you get it right, the rest of the year feels so much more manageable.
Ready to Stop Piecing It All Together?
After years of staying up until midnight piecing together my first week from dozens of different resources, I finally created the Back-to-School Bundle I wish I’d had from the beginning.
Inside you’ll find meaningful first week of school activities, back-to-school forms, classroom management tools, and slideshows that make the first days feel organized and intentional instead of overwhelming.
It’s everything I wish I had when I was staying up until midnight the night before school started.
👉 Grab it here: Back-to-School Bundle on TPT

One Last Thing
The best first week of school isn’t the busiest one. It’s the one that sets your students up to feel safe, understand expectations, and actually be ready to learn.
You don’t have to do everything. You just have to do the right things.
And friend, you’ve got this. Here’s to a great start to the year!
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