The first week of school is a big deal, for you and your students. New routines, new faces, new expectations… it can feel like a whirlwind. While many teachers jump right into rules and procedures, taking the time to build connections first can completely change the vibe of your classroom (and your entire year).
If you teach grades 3–5, you know your students are at that sweet spot: old enough to crave independence and humor, but young enough to still enjoy silly games and sharing about themselves. The problem? So many classic icebreakers feel too forced or “babyish” for this age group, leaving students disengaged and you frustrated.
That’s why I put together this list of actually fun, low-pressure icebreaker ideas for upper elementary that work. These activities are designed to help your students feel safe, seen, and excited to be part of your classroom community without eye rolls or awkward silences.
1. Roll & Share
Use a big foam die or a digital dice tool. Each number matches a fun prompt on the board, like “1 = Favorite snack,” “2 = A hobby you love,” or “3 = Dream vacation.” Students roll and share with the group or a partner. Simple, silly, and always a hit.
2. My Life in Pictures
Students draw or collage three to five images that represent them. This could be a favorite activity, family, dream job, or something they’re excited for this year. Then they share in small groups or during a gallery walk.
3. Would You Rather? (Movement Edition)
Pose fun “Would You Rather” questions and have students move to different corners of the room to show their answer. It gets them up, moving, and talking right away.
4. Interview & Introduce
One of the tried and true icebreaker ideas for upper elementary, year after year. Pair students to interview each other using question cards or prompts. Then, each student introduces their partner to the class, sharing two or three fun facts. Who knows, you might create instant besties!
5. Stand Up If…
Get students moving and discovering what they have in common with their classmates. Read statements out loud (like “Stand up if you have a pet” or “Stand up if you love to dance”), and students stand if it applies to them. It’s quick, easy, and perfect for sparking conversations without any pressure to talk in front of the whole group. Want a similar & done-for-you option? Check out my Classmate Quest activity on TPT!
6. Suitcase of Me
Students list or draw five items they’d pack to represent themselves. These can be symbolic or literal. Students share in small groups or rotate to learn about each other. I have a similar activity, called the Brown Paper Bag Project, in my Free Resource Library! Get access here!
7. Emoji Check-In
Give each student an emoji card or display a set on the board. Ask them to pick one that matches how they feel about starting the new year and explain why. This is a quick, simple way to open up sharing.
8. Classroom Scavenger Hunt
Send students on a guided hunt to find key places or items in the classroom, like “Where do we turn in homework?” or “Find a comfy reading spot.” It helps them learn the space and encourages teamwork.
9. Two Things & a Twist
Students write down two true things about themselves and one “twist” that isn’t totally false but is unexpected. The class guesses which one is the twist. This is a fun, fresh take on the classic “Two Truths and a Lie.”
10. Collaborative Class Art
Give each student a puzzle piece or small square of paper to decorate with symbols, words, or drawings about themselves. Put all the pieces together to create a “We Are a Team” display to hang up for Back to School Night.
Starting your year with intention and warmth is one of the best gifts you can give yourself and your students. When kids feel welcome and connected from day one, they’re more willing to participate, take academic risks, and support each other throughout the year.
These icebreaker ideas aren’t just about filling time or checking a box. They’re about laying the foundation for a classroom where every student feels they belong. And when that happens? Everything else, from writing paragraphs to tackling math problems, becomes a little easier.
Ready to make it happen? Download my FREE Icebreaker Idea Deck, packed with 10 ready-to-use activities to kickstart connection and fun on day one (and beyond). Just display the slideshow presentation on your board and you’re ready to go!
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Here’s to a year full of laughter, learning, and community, right from the start. You’ve got this!
This is Part 5 of the Summer Reset Series
The Summer Reset Series is a 5-part collection of teacher tools, blog posts, and freebies to help you go back to school with confidence without the burnout.
- Summer Brain Dump & Reflection Planner
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